Deployments are hard, it takes a lot for both to get through. It is this fine line for me personally, of making sure he knows I am OK- and that I still miss him like crazy. Spouses may not be in the deployment stationed wherever in the world – but they go through it too.
If you need any resources or someone to talk to please do not hesitate to contact me.
My deployment bucket list is something I try to focus on while he is gone.